In
his insightful book, now a classic, “Jesus and the Disinherited,” Howard
Thurman states that during the time of war “hate becomes respectable and
masquerades under the guise of patriotism.” He said after Pearl Harbor,
Americans found it easy to hate the Japanese. And we did terrible things in
this country to innocent Japanese families who were American citizens when
World War II started.
The
same thing happened even more dramatically after 911. Something in the American
spirit died or certainly withered after that cataclysmic event. We found it
easy to hate Arabs, Muslims, anyone who remotely reminded us of the terrorists.
But
what Thurman says in his book that is so interesting is that hate for one group
of people does not end there. We often find after hating one group that we easily
begin hating anyone we dislike. Hate has a way of spreading its venom. Once
embraced within us we comfortably release it out of us into all kinds of relationships,
people, and associations with others.
Thurman
knew all about that. He was a distinguished Black theologian and teacher during
the Viet Nam War. On a train one day in the South a conductor asked the woman
across the aisle from him for her ticket. She sneered and pointing to Thurman
said, “What is that doing on here.”
Hate
reeks with vitriol, ignorance, and inhumanity. It reduces people to things
without value.
I
am convinced this is what happened to us after 911. First we gave ourselves
permission to hate Arabs and Muslims. We convinced ourselves they deserved our
hate. We often celebrated our hate for them. Then it deepened into the worst
kind of ugly consent. It made us feel we could hate anyone we didn’t like. Now
we find it easy to hate Blacks, Gays, Liberals, The Media, The Government,
President Obama, Congress, The Cops, Public Schools. We hate people driving in
front or behind us in traffic. We hate absent store clerks. We hate people
talking loudly on their cell phones. We hate people on Facebook and Twitter,
many of them strangers we know nothing about. We don’t like their viewpoint or
their comments and we hate them for their opinions. The list of who we hate keeps
growing.
I
was appalled that no one, not a single leader in the nation, made any
significant attempt to help us as a country understand what had happened to us on
911 and why. Our leaders—political, religious, educational, and social—all
failed us. They, too, found it easy to hate. And they gave us permission to let
our hate go without check, without reasonable limits, without any serious
understanding of what we were feeling and how destructive those feelings were.
Now
we wear our hate with pride. We feel no remorse for it. We don’t even think
about it. And if we do we justify it with the flimsiest excuses. President
Obama is attempting to work out a deal with Iran. But many in this country aren’t
interested in peaceful negotiations. They want war. They hate Iran and Iranians
and since hate keeps us hateful and condones all manner of evils against our
enemies then why not?
Across
the nation our hate for one another rides on waves of celebration. Oh, there is
love. Yes. There are good decent people still crossing paths with us. But does
that matter anymore? Do they matter? Aggression. Bottom line thinking with self
at the end of everything. Get out of my way to those who don’t count in our
arithmetic of living. Money as an only goal worth pursuing. Bubble existence. God,
Christ, Church, religion used to intimidate anyone who doesn’t accept my
beliefs of which I am always certain are correct. These ugly mindsets describe
our American philosophy.
No
one likes to hear any of this and so we dismiss this kind of description of ourselves as cynicism or sour grapes
or unpatriotic. But deep in our hearts we know it’s true. We know our nation
has lost something profoundly human. We have stopped caring about one another.
Our hate has replaced our sense of reverence for life. Nick Lowe’s song The Beast in Me describes us: “The beast
in me is caged by frail and fragile bonds / restless by day and by night /
rants and rages at the stars / God help, the beast in me.”
Those
frail and fragile bonds are no longer guarded. The beast is loose in nearly all
of us.
The
mystics beautifully say we human beings are one tree with various types and
shapes and sizes of leaves and that we all wave differently in the breeze. I
believe that. And I’m okay with that. But it’s not a part of our national
thinking. We don’t want to all belong to the same human roots. We want to be
our own tree and have all other trees do what we say and do. And if not, let
them wither, or be destroyed.
Until
we confront our hate, and work, and it takes work, to enlarge our capacity to
accept others different from us but still connected to our humanity; until we
give more power to love than to antagonism, spite, and revenge; until we are
willing to be intelligent about our dealings with people in society and the
larger world, then nothing will change. Except that, our hearts will harden,
atrophy, and stop. And all that will be left will be the ashes of our hate.
©
2015 Timothy Moody
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